There are moments when I hear someone sing—especially when the voice sounds a bit like his. Or when they sing his songs. That’s when I suddenly feel it again. The ache. The love. The memories.
It’s been three months since Dadsoy left us, but to me, it still feels like yesterday. And yet, every time I revisit the videos, the laughter, and the joy—we get to have him back, even for a moment.
Dadsoy was strength personified. He carried so much, silently. Even when he was in pain, he wouldn’t let you feel it. He wouldn’t show it. During his last few days, he would still try to smile and talk to us whenever he was conscious—still trying to be ‘okay’ for us. Ganun siya katapang. Ganun niya kami kamahal.
I’ve kept several videos of him—some were silly, some spontaneous, and some were just real. One of my favorites is from his pandemic birthday. Ako na ang videographer, ako pa yung lead singer ng ‘Happy Birthday’ sa lakas ng boses ko. Sobrang saya niya—kita mo yung ngipin niya nung nag-smile. That memory? Priceless.
Another moment I’ll treasure forever: his scuba diving adventure—part of his bucket list. I got to interview him after the dive. Watching that video again now, I still see his excitement. Buhay na buhay siya doon.
I’m also sharing a short clip from his 40th day remembrance. Not to mourn again, but to honor a life well-lived. Hindi ko gustong maalala siya sa pagkakasakit—gusto ko siyang maalala na masaya, buo, at matatag.
Dadsoy, thank you. For the strength you showed us. For the love you gave so freely. For choosing to fight silently just so we wouldn’t worry.
You may be gone, but your voice, your laughter, your lessons—they live on in me.
You were always our quiet warrior.
And I will always be your proud daughter.
Life With No Regrets 
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